it’s truly unbelievable how the kink community will put their hands over their ears when survivors talk about the fetishization of their abuse but then use survivors who cope using bdsm as props to win arguments 



honestly can’t wait for the 50 shades movie to normalize the manipulation of lower-level female employees.  can’t wait for the new wave of “consent is sexy” banners on the cover of cosmo.  can’t wait for teen girls to think that a controlling relationship is romantic.  can’t wait for sexualized violence to become increasingly mainstream.  and most of all, i can’t wait for bdsm to be labeled a feminist revolution


My best friend told me this when I was going through some difficult stuff.

"One thing I’ve learned is never let anyone…ANYONE, idc if they’re GOD take centre stage in your own fucking life. It took me a year to fucking figure it out. Some people are leeches. You are kind, you love to help people, you have something in you that people are drawn to because of that. Because people want to be cared about, but idk man. Don’t let nobody leech your love that you should be giving to your own self."

I think everyone should remember this.

Why can’t we love the right people? What is so wrong with us that we rush into situations to which we are manifestly unsuited, which will hurt us and others? Why are we given emotions which we cannot control and which move in exact contradiction to what we really want? We are walking conflicts, internal battles on legs.
― Marian Keyes

o god

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